Nicole Kidman Movies: Movie Review: Rabbit Hole: The death of a child is, not to put too fine a point on it, shattering. And the devastation that follows is non-negotiable. How do you live, after? ‘Rabbit Hole’, based on a play of the same name, takes this intractable problem and tosses it at young couple Becca and Howie, and invites us to see how they are doing, eight months after the tragedy.

Truth is, they are doing very badly indeed. Becca ( Kidman, up for a Best Actress at the Oscars) is a zombie, moving from one room to another, erasing all signs of Danny. There’s no attempt at trying to come to terms with something you have no control over : a wild sister’s unexpected pregnancy is a cause, not for celebration, but more angry frustration. Howie’s ( Eckhart) constant efforts at trying to prise her, and them, out of it are rebuffed : all Becca wants is to dig herself deeper into the hole, and the only solace she can find is, ironically, from scarred rabbit Jason ( Teller), the schoolkid who was driving too fast that terrible day, and who didn’t swerve fast enough.

Doing grief is tricky. At its most effective, it can reach out and wrap itself around your heart. But Kidman is never given a chance to take it in, deep into herself, and bring it out. The appearance is all right—the pinched face, the sunken eyes, the careless putting together of the self, but you don’t feel it. Eckhart gets it right : it’s in the way he settles down in the settee, late at night, bringing his son alive in the video he has on his cellphone; it’s in the way he holds his wife, willing her to come back to him, to life.